The Steps 

The Calming Stairs were created to support children and the adults who care for them through moments of overwhelm, distress, and big emotions. They are used when a child is dysregulated, struggling to cope, or unable to think clearly — helping adults respond with calm, connection, and understanding instead of punishment or pressure. The framework was shaped through real-life parenting, SEN and trauma-informed learning, and countless moments of trying to do the right thing without always knowing how. It exists because behaviour is often a sign of unmet need, and families deserve practical tools that protect relationships while building emotional safety, confidence, and long-term growth.